Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Cold Day and Warm Hearts



Sunday morning we awoke to our first really hard frost.  It was cold!  27 was our overnight low.  But we are two folks who love the cold.  36 years ago we made wedding vows to each other on a cold beach in Douglas, Alaska.  Yes, it was our anniversary.  We had not made a plan on how we would celebrate.  We brainstormed while having our first cup of coffee.  It has been a very workie last few months and our budget is a bit tight.  So we needed something cheap and not anything like work.  I, tentatively, suggested taking our canoe for a spin even though it was pretty cold.  DH loved the idea!  So after a leisurely breakfast and taking Runa for a walk I packet a picnic and DH loaded up the canoe!

We had planned to go to a bigger lake but the wind started to pick up so we went our nearby favorite, Branch Pond in Palermo, Maine.  Here is a photo journal of our frosty time on the lake.

Peak Foliage!




My Sweetie!

Great Blue Heron


Not much need for the paddle with the electric canoe!

Reflecting on reflections~~~



We had FUN! Afterwards we went out for ice cream at John's, of course!  (a hot shower when we got home....yes, I am wearing 3 hats!)

Sunday, October 19, 2014

~~~Gratitude~~~ 35



So easy to be grateful for 35 years with my best friend.  We spent a sublime day at Popham Beach, Maine to celebrate.  It was a simple observation of our time together.  We have never been much on ceremony.  For years we would give our selves building project for our anniversary.  Now restfulness is what we desire.  35 years ago we made a choice on a beach in Alaska.  Our vow was simply to chose each other among the many in the world we could chose to make a life with.  Later we made it legal with a justice of the peace but, that day has never really mattered to us.  It is that choosing that got us through many challenges over the years.  Like so many we have had our struggles.  But, I truly, believe it was that simple act of choosing each other over and over again that has kept us together all of these years.  Now we are ready to enjoy the comfort that comes after so many years together and much personal growth.

We had not been to Popham Beach in over 30 years!  It was a choice on a whim on a very warm day in October.  We packed a picnic and enjoyed a drive through Maine with peak foliage colors to entertain us.  We arrived at low tide and the expansiveness of the beach took our breath away.  I don't believe I have physically been in this much openness in many years.  We walked a lot enjoying a warm wind and the sound of the surf.  At one point, near the end of our stay, we sat in the sand with our backs against a drift log.  The wind was just enough to move the sand across the beach in way that felt and looked ...I don't know...sort of unworldly.  There was an abstract transcendent feeling ~~it was sublime~~~

Here is a photo journal of our lovely day at the beach~~~




















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It is my intention, each week, to share something that fills me with Gratitude. 
I write ~~~Gratitude~~~ with the wavy lines to represent the gratitude ENERGY~~~~~! 
I hope you will join me and share your gratitude moments. 
~~~Amen, Blessed Be, Namaste'~~~

Friday, October 18, 2013

34

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Can you guess what year?  I have never been much for games or beating around the bush.  I am more likely to get in trouble for telling it like it is...at least the IS that is my IS.  So today I have been with my partner in life creation for 34 years.  Our "marriage" was not the conventional sort.  No one on Etsy would have made any money from my getting hitched.  34 years ago today we said vows to each other on beach in Douglas Alaska with our only witness a scrappy little sled dog pup, named Kavik, that joined us during a hitchhiking trip arounds Alaska.   Later, before we bought land together we became legal...I don't remember the day or the year...July I think...it only cost $10 for the marriage license...that much a do remember.  And my husbands buddy from his high school days was our witness then.

It hasn't always been smooth sailing for 34 years, it has been a growth process...Earth School, Baby!  Like I said I don't care for games (as a kid I thought board games were bored games) So during challenges I could go right for the juggler of truth...not always pleasant. Neither of us quit anything easily and we are both deeply loyal people...sometimes to a fault but that is how we roll.   Our marriage has been based on choice.  That was our vow to each other~~~ we both said that, I know I could choose a life partner from a multitude  of different people and have a great life but, I choose you!  So during the rough times reflection on our choice brought us out of whatever trouble we may have had.

We were together 15 years before our son was born.  Now with the boyo happily starting his life we look forward to what comes next!  We are much more discerning now.  We waste very little time being "mad" at each other...now we choose to be "mad" about each other.  The truth is the other aspect of our life together that has kept us together is, well, I like to say sometimes that we fell in lust with each other...we were pretty young!

So here is my favorite lust poem....

Wild nights - Wild nights! (269)

BY EMILY DICKINSON
Wild nights - Wild nights!
Were I with thee
Wild nights should be
Our luxury!

Futile - the winds -
To a Heart in port -
Done with the Compass -
Done with the Chart!

Rowing in Eden -
Ah - the Sea!
Might I but moor - tonight -
In thee!